how many times in your life do you actually experience shit? i guess everyone bound to experience such stuff before eh? by shit i meant, real shit. people backstabbing you, you being wrongly accused, you being treated very badly, etc. basically the worst thing that can ever happened. we all have our worst moment to speak of. so right, when shit happens, what do you do? do you wallow in self pity or do you pick yourself up and move on stronger than before?

i guess everyone's choice would be to pick yourself up and move on stronger than before eh? but how many of you actually can do it? how many times have you told yourself, i am alright but in the end, you are actually very hurt? well, humans are still a very fragile living thing i guess. you want to pick yourself up but just seems so hard to do so, it's like some sort of invisible force making you unable to be like what you used to be. well, fear not, actually to pick yourself up from shit is very easy.

let's look at things this way, even if you wallow in self pity, would things be better or would it just be the same? if things can get better when you wallow in self pity, by all means go ahead and cry for all you like. till your eyes is sore, till your body is tired, you will come to realized, why am i actually being so hard on myself? humans are supposed to be living their lives happily, because we have emotions. we are granted the world's greatest gift, so why not make good use of the gift of life? wallowing in self pity is just a sign of you not being strong enough, you are just admitting defeat in a very disgusting way. we got a long way to go in our lives, stopping now because you met failures? nah, not for me.

picking yourself up from shit is really very hard, it's not something that can be done overnight. but before you give up on yourself, ask yourself, have u actually tried something before giving up? or u just blatantly admit defeat without even trying? tell yourself this, you are a loser if you give up so easily. pick yourself up, move on with your life. shits happened everywhere, every moment, you can't control it. but the thing you can control is your life, yes, the very precious, life. we are still like infants, searching around and learning things. there is still alot of things out there waiting for us. our lives don't stop when shit happens, instead, they continue on.

so next time when you are gonna wallow in self pity when shit happens, think carefully. do you wanna be a winner who can conquer whatever that comes or do you wanna be a loser who gives up just because bad things happened on you? REMEMBER, shits don't just happen on you, it happens on other people too. millions of people have already conquer it, can you? are you strong enough to emerge as the winner eventually? =)